Your wedding is near and you're quite excited. You're not the only one. Everyone you know is probably excited about the thing. It wouldn't be surprising if you find people suddenly talking to you about the event. I don't blame you if you suddenly feel obliged to invite every single of them. You feel like you want to send buckets of wedding invitations in Batangas. You might even feel embarrassed about not inviting them. Don't be. I'm going to summarize the reasons why you shouldn't invite everyone to your wedding. It's about you, not them
This might seem like a bit arrogant to you, but believe me when I say that it's not. We are just being frank here. Sure, everyone would be really glad if they were invited to a wedding, but you don't have to invite a single one of them so that they feel satisfied with themselves. It's not really them you should be making happy. Rather, it's you. If you're comfortable with the idea of inviting everyone then go right ahead, but if you feel weird about the whole idea then just don't. There are actually people who only want significant people to part with the happiest day of their lives, and if you're one of them then you should just invite the people that you want o invite. Too many guests are expensive
It's no secret that weddings are expensive. No wonder some couples even have to split the expenses. The costs are just too big, which is exactly why you're not supposed to be obliged to invite people to your wedding. It's part of the whole planning process. The planning is dedicated to making your wedding the best you can afford. With that, you can only have certain names on your list. You can't have all of them, or else you'll be sacrificing the quality of your wedding. After all, your wedding is still for you and not anybody else. You shouldn't have to sacrifice it for the sake of other people People will criticize you
People probably won't criticize you for wanting to invite everybody, but they surely will criticize you for throwing a below par wedding for the sake of inviting everybody. Your wedding is your big day. This is the day that you should be having the time of your life. You won't be having the time of your life when people are criticizing you.
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